When you think in spending time in things YOU want to do. When you think in spending money in something YOU want. When YOU have the idea to come first before anyone else. What is the first thing it comes to mind??
I'm being selfish.
How could I.
I can't, I'm a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister.
Let me tell you something, something we all should repeat to ourselves more often. YOU are not selfish, self-love is not selfish. Self-love is SEXY!
Sexy in a way that yes you look more attractive, because you actually spend money in that skin treatment, went to a massage, invested in a bad ass hair stylist; but it goes deeper than that, self-love is sexy because you decided to love yourself first before anyone else and that little lady brings a sense of assertiveness and security that nothing else can give you.
Only you can give yourself the permission in taking better care of yourself, don't wait for someone else to do it because it might never come. Because the word self-love says it, is is love that comes from one inner self! And the thing is that the more you love yourself, the more you give permission to others to love you as well.
So next time doubt comes into play, do totally the contrary. Just do it without any remorse, go for a spa day, take a trip with your besties, tell the husband he is in daddy duty and you do whatever you feel like, take a nap, contemplate life, do what YOU want. Like anything else that you do new in life, at the beginning feels funny, strange, no worries you will warm up real quick and will never ever want to stop.
IF YOU AGREE SELF-LOVE IS SEXY, IF YOU AGREE WOMEN NEED SOME MORE EXTRA LOVING, SHARE, SHARE AND SHARE!
As always thank you for reading love,
Lots of love